Let me give you a little back story. I attended the Cincinnati Music Fest this past July. While we were there, we attended some parties, (which were the bizness btw). So we requested for bottle service and boy did those bottles go quick! Here's the issue, "someone I know" boyfriend summoned the cocktail waitress and when she approached him he grabbed her hand and started rubbing it while he was ordering the other bottle. When I informed her of this issue she simply said he's just flirting, it's ok! HUH??? NO IT'S NOT OK!!!
BUT WHAT DO YOU THINK?
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Well..LOL....Im sure the bottle service was great!!!!. In regards to the guy and the waitress situation, i feel that its a cant win for loosing situation, and he knows what he was doing but at the end of the day its ppl besides the one that your are committed to that will catch your eye in VARIOUS WAYS!!!..depends on the person.
ReplyDeleteWell I just had a conversation with my bestfriend about this type of situation! In all honesty I would mind my business and not tell my friend anything, simply because ultimately the final decision of putting up with it is your friends! I've been in situations when I saw some of my good friends girls or guys out with other people. I just turned my head....I'm with todd...I think its a lose lose situation...If you say something and she stays with the guy you look like you want to stir up trouble in their relationship.... and if you don't say anything and it comes to the light that you knew, you're not a good friend!!!! This is a situation when silence is golden!!!!
ReplyDeleteExactly Bro@..Jason..and this stuff happens everyday.and some friends will make it seem like your bad person for not saying anything.lolbvs
ReplyDeleteYeah that's what I was thinking because another girl saw it too and I was like wait if she go back and tell her she might mention the fact that i saw it too and it'll look like well why didn't I say anything. So that's the only reason why I told her. But she said let her know if I see anything else...btw they are still together but do their thing on the side
ReplyDeleteI side with Jason & Mr. Ex...it's a no-win situation...but I guess it depends on what type of friends you and your girl are, too...if I was in a similar situation, and a female did that and she dated my closest male friend, first thing I would be is really mad at HER, because I don't want to see my potna being played. Plus, she more than likely knows that me and her boy are best friends, yet she decides to act a fool in front of me?! No sir!! So I would then pull her to the side and tell her she better straighten up as long as I'm in the vicinity. That might at least make her act right in front of me and keep me out of the middle of any future drama. And I wouldn't tell my boy about that incident - I would always confront her about any future nonsense before I told him. But if you and homegirl aren't cool like that, Tracy T., I think you just leave it alone completely. That's MY take on it!
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